MORE: 9 Signs He’s Really Not That Into You. 10. He adopts a “power stance”. Men like to appear more masculine in front of the woman they like (in order to impress her) so he might adopt a so-called “power stance” when he talks to you. Legs spread, back straight, hands on his hips. 11. By the 2000's, this natural look became more prominent in the fashion world. However, most black women still feel that their natural hair isn't beautiful. This takes me to my main point, DO NOT TOUCH A BLACK GIRLS' HAIR. Self-confidence is the main root of this point. I see it like this: it took me hours to do it, you know that once I step.